Showing posts with label sex toys. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex toys. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 14, 2014

Wednesday, April 9, 2014

Giveaway Round Up #2

I love to pass along amazing giveaways to my kinky readers...  So here you are loves!




Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Where to Hide Your Sex Toys

Curiosity is a great characteristic... one that encourages learning, exploring, and self-awareness. 

However, this is not the case when it comes to our kids finding our sex toys.  So it only makes sense that we keep these adult playthings hidden and out of reach from curious little hands and inquiring little minds.  


Of course there are the traditional hiding spaces like your panty drawer, nightstand, or under the bed.  But if your kids are anything like mine, these spots are too easy to access.  

Here are a few more creative places to stash your toys:
  • Inside the tissue box next to the bed
  • Inside a vase, obscured by pretty flowers (guessing the flowers would need to be fake)
  • In a purse you don't use regularly
  • Hidden bathroom tile storage (love this idea)
  • Inside tampon box or bag of pads
  • In a cereal box (blame Cosmo for this one)

Still not convinced you have found the right spot to stash your toy box goodies? 


Here are a few more great storage solutions for your toys:



Large Toy Chest - Black
Keep your toys safe from prying eyes with this large lockable trunk. Featuring a black matte finish, sturdy construction and a combination lock you set yourself. Case is 8" tall, 14.5" wide and has an adjustable shelf inside.  Also available in pink.


Plushie Pillow
Stash your sex toys in the soft, plush, petite pillow. For added fun, turn your vibrator on inside the pillow and hug your Plushie Pillow close. Available in Black and Pink.




Sugar Sak
A sexy designer toy bag that will keep your bedroom accessories bacteria free! The Sugar Sak provides you with the protection of Bioshield 75. This invisible coating utilizes exclusive EPA approved patented technology to provide a barrier that inhibits the growth of bacteria, fungi, yeast, mold, mildew and viruses in the bag. Available in 2 sizes. Large 7' x 12' and X-Large 9.5' x 12' NOTE: X-Large is shown and the X-Large has an interior pocket.




Toy Chest - Black
A stylish and secure lockable case to keep your private items private. Featuring a matte black finish, sturdy construction and a combination lock you set yourself. Case is 4" tall, 11.5" wide.  Also available in purple.




Tyler Hope Love Bear
The Tyler Hope Love Bear is a cuddly bear that hides your most intimate personal items in the most adorable way. Tyler is 24" tall with soft brown fur and sparkling button eyes. Features an easily accessible opening with a magnetic closure behind the neck where you can stash your toys. A soft drawstring bag is included to hold smaller items.




Sweetheart Surprise Pillow
Our Sweetheart Surprise Pillow makes the perfect 'Hide A Gift' or 'Hide a Vibe' Pillow. What better place to hide your surprise than in a Sexy Red Satin Pillow with Black Fuzzy Trim! This innocent red throw pillow features a discreet zipper that conceals a hidden compartment with white satiny lining to make storing your surprise or your erotic toys a real treat. Pillow measures approximately 9 inches square.



Where are your favorite hiding spots?









Friday, March 28, 2014

Giveaway Round Up #1

Who doesn't love free sex toys?  


I know I do... so here is a list of current giveaways you can enter to win some for yourself.

















Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Wednesday, January 29, 2014

We-Vibe: The Ultimate Versatile Buzz


How versatile is your vibrator?  I wanted to share a little info about the We-Vibe II to start your day... this is an AMAZING product! It is great for solo play & can be worn while having sex with a partner! 


This vibe is C shaped and fits in the palm of your hand.  It is the first-ever dual vibrator that can be worn while making love. It weighs only 2 ounces, has 9 exciting modes of vibration, and has two ultra-quiet powerful motors at each end. It is hands free, strap free and wireless, and is rechargeable.  The We-Vibe II is created from 100% medical grade silicone that is soft, comfortable and easy to use. It is completely non-porous too, so you don't have to worry about bacteria soaking into the soft surface.  This makes it safe to use vaginally and anally as long as you use an antibacterial toy cleaner to wash it before switching from anal to vaginal use.  The We-Vibe II is Phthalate free as well, meaning it is body safe. 

So just how is this so versatile you ask... let me tell you.  This is a great toy for solo play or any mix of partners, gay or straight.  Here are some of the many ways:


  • Couple's toy during intercourse (vulva & penis or vulva & dildo) - This is what the We-Vibe II was primarily designed for.  The smaller rigid end is worn about 1.5" inside the vagina and sits against the G-spot.  The larger end is worn outside the body and sits against the clitoris.  Your partner's penis, fingers, or a dildo can go inside the vagina, under the vibe - this gives you both a great buzz!  The man's penis gets vibrations on the sensitive tip, the woman's G-spot gets tapped with each thrust, and the clitoris gets hands free vibrations the whole time.  



  • Vibrating penis/dildo ring (all) - To try this, hang the We-Vibe in an upside-down U shape over the base of a penis or dildo.  This provides pleasant vibrations along the base and shaft of the penis and with each thrust, the lips of the vulva are in contact with both vibrating ends.
  • Masturbation & Foreplay (female) - Use the larger end of the vibe as a handle and move the smaller end in and out of the vagina in a stroking motion.  This stimulates the sensitive nerve endings at the opening of the vagina.  The larger end can be used for clitoral massage.  You can also use both ends of the We-Vibe to stimulate the clitoris - one on each side and rub them together or use both ends in a gentle pinching motion to stimulate the inner lips.
  • Masturbation & Foreplay (male) - Using lots of water-based lubricant (try Sliquid), place the We-Vibe on either side of the penis and stroke the penis shaft up and down on your favorite vibration setting.  You can also rub the vibe in a circular motion around or underneath the coronal ridge (the ridge of the head of the penis).
  • Anal toy (all) - This vibe can be used for beginners, as well as the more experienced in anal play.  Using the smaller end of the vibe inside the anus stimulates the many sensitive nerve endings at the opening of the anus (this is true for all genders).  Try moving the toy gently in and out using the larger end as a handle or leave it in place.  For males, the smaller end can be worn inside the anus and the larger end can be placed underneath the balls for a unique vibrating sensation.  
  • Oral sex (female) - For a multitude of sensations, wear the larger end of the vibe inside the vagina and the smaller end inside the anus.  Now all hands and tongues are free to give and receive oral sex!  If you are worried about getting moisture inside the charging port, a condom can be put on top of the larger end.
  • Oral sex (male) - Place the We-Vibe II on either side of the balls - on the low setting.  Now you are ready to receive amazing head!  You can also try this with the smaller end inserted into the anus and the larger end under the balls while receiving head for extra stimulation.
  • Enhanced anal sex (female/male or female solo) - Wear the vibe as described in 'couple's toy during intercourse' - with the smaller end inside the vagina and the larger end on the clitoris.  Now, anal sex can be enjoyed with a penis or a dildo.  If anal sex is with a partner, the penis and balls will feel some of the vibrations too!
  • Under strap-on harness (female) - Wear the vibe as described in 'couple's toy during intercourse' - with the smaller end inside the vagina and the larger end on the clitoris.  Now, your favorite strap-on harness can be worn as normal (leaving the We-Vibe) under the harness.  The harness should still fit almost flush with your pubic mound because of the vibe's low profile.  (Try it with our Bend Over Beginner Set, Bend Over Intermediate Set, or Vibrating 3-Speed Strap On.)
  • Vibrating panties without the panty (female) - Do you want to have vibrating pleasure while out on the town... with no one even knowing?  The We-Vibe is so quiet and sleek that you can wear it with the smaller end inside the vagina and the larger end on the clitoris while out for dinner, the movies... the possibilities are endless!  Make sure the vibe has been charging for a full 24-hours prior in order to get the maximum battery life during your adventure.
  • Double clitoral fun (two females) - This is a great way for two women to spice things up... one vagina and two clitorises at once!  While on the bottom, one partner wears the vibe as described in 'couple's toy during intercourse' - with the smaller end inside the vagina and the larger end on the clitoris.  The other partner straddles on top or facing side by side.  When the clitorises are pressed together with the We-Vibe between, both partners get amazing vibrations.  Try moving back and forth... rotating your hips in small circles... get creative!

Have you tried the We-Vibe II?  What creative ways have you found to use it?


Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Vibrator Treats Common Menopause Symptom

The Huffington Post  |  By Anthonia Akitunde



Hot flashes, night sweats, shifts in moods... women suffering from menopause are well aware of the symptoms. But one of the more embarrassing symptoms is vaginal dryness.
"Just like when women first get their periods, menopause is a big life change," said Dr. Mary Jane Minkin, a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Yale University School of Medicine. "The lack of estrogen in the body decreases blood flow to the pelvic region. As a result, this can cause vaginal dryness and vaginal atrophy, or a weakening of the muscle tone in the pelvic area that can lead to sexual dysfunction and painful sex."
Vaginal dryness is a common complaint for women during and after menopause. To treat the irritating and embarrassing problem, doctors usually prescribe topical estrogen creams and gels that can be applied to the vagina for lubrication. But Dr. Minkin has a different, non-hormonal and slightly unconventional solution: vibrators.
Here, Dr. Minkin explains the benefits of using a vibrator to treat vaginal dryness.
How can a vibrator help with this common menopause symptom?
Vibrators improve reproductive and pelvic health help by stimulating pelvic blood flow, which increases vaginal moisture and boosts sexual response, all of which making sex (with or with a partner) more enjoyable. Like any muscle, the vagina is best kept healthy with regular exercise -- it’s the “use it, or lose it” mentality. Deterioration is particularly common as more middle-age or older women find themselves in situations where they aren't sexually active (single, divorced, widowed or aren't having regular sex with partners).
Therapeutically, frequent vibrator use can prevent and ward off conditions such as painful vaginal dryness and atrophy. Within a month, women should notice a difference (even past menopause).
Can you walk us through how you diagnose your patients?
always talk to my patients about her sex life -- with or without a partner -- during exams. Let’s say I have a post-menopausal patient who is experiencing a lot of vaginal dryness and is not sexually active. I’ll recommend she try the We-Vibe (pictured above) along with lubricant or with estrogen, if she’s comfortable. During the follow up visit, I’ve noticed patients will frequently tell me they don’t need the estrogen as much because increased activity via [a vibrator] provides more moisture. While vibrators can be used with or without estrogen, we work to find the best combination to keep women healthy and happy.
How have women you've treated responded to this treatment?
It’s been a very positive response so far. At least half of women I speak with are comfortable using vibrators. Of course I always work within a patient’s comfort zone, but my main goal as their doctor is to provide a variety of treatment options. The reality is, vibrators are a great, no-side effect solution to an issue that millions of women suffer from. My goal is to educate women that vibrators aren't something to be embarrassed about -- not only are they fun, but they also help women stay comfortable and happy during this sometimes uncomfortable stage in life.
How often do you recommend women use a vibrator for treatment?
I recommend my patients use a vibrator three to four times a week, but as Mae West said, “Too much of a good thing can be wonderful!” Also, I suggest patients use lubricants along with the vibrator since the body-safe product is made of medical-grade silicone.

Friday, January 17, 2014

How to Buy & Size a Cock Ring

What man doesn't want a longer, stronger, bigger erection with a more explosive orgasm?


A cock ring can give you just that and add a boost of confidence to your performance.  This is probably why they are so popular, even among those who wouldn't normally be inclined to try sex toys.  It is like a push-up bra for a man's package, meaning it causes it to sit forward and up.

If you are new to cock rings, I suggest starting with a stretchy material and working your way up to a more solid ring.  Getting a proper fit is essential when using a more solid ring.  A ring that is too loose will be ineffective.  A ring that is too tight can be painful and cause lock-up (more on that in a moment).  Trimmed or shaved pubic hair eliminates any pulled hair while wearing the ring.

Cock Ring Sizing Chart

5.50" = 1 3/4" ring
5.89" = 1 7/8" ring
6.28" = 2" ring


What size is the right size?

To measure your body, use a piece of string.  Loop it behind your balls and bring both ends of the string to the front of where your penis meets your abdomen.  Find a comfortable amount of snugness and mark the area where the two sides of string meet with a marker.  Measure the string in inches (this will be your circumference) and divide it by 3.14.  That number is your diameter and how cock rings are sized.

How does a cock ring work?

A cock ring works by restricting the blood flow in and out of the penis.  This causes the penis to feel harder and bigger.  It also causes orgasm to be delayed and more intense.

How does a cock ring get put on?

It is best to put a cock ring on a flaccid or semi-erect penis.  First, put lube on the body (around the balls and base of penis) and cock ring.  Next, gently push one ball at a time through the ring.  Then carefully push the semi-erect penis through the ring.  Once in place, you can go about your regular sex play.  Some men prefer to wear a cock ring over their balls and penis, while others prefer to wear it just at the base of their shaft.  How you choose to wear your cock ring is personal preference.  I encourage you to try both and decide for yourself.

How long can a cock ring be worn?

The average wear time for a cock ring is about 20 minutes.  You shouldn't sleep (or pass out on those drunken nights) with a cock ring on because it can cause painful bruising.  If you feel pain or numbness while wearing a cock ring, then remove it.

What if I can't get the ring off my body and my erection won't go down?

Here is where we will talk about "lock-up".  This term refers to when a man has a cock ring on, his penis becomes engorged, he freaks out and can't get it off.  A man's heart rate goes way up when this happens.  Often times, this leads to frantic calls and emergency room trips.  If this happens to you, RELAX.  I know, easier said then done in this situation.  By relaxing and lowering the heart rate, the cock ring should be able to be removed without a trip to the hospital.  Some things to help lower the heart rate could be a cold shower, smoking a cigarette, or meditating.  If using a cock ring made of a stretchy material or a silicone ring, scissors can be used to snip the ring for easy removal.

Types of Rings to Consider

Silicone gives the feel of a solid ring but can be snipped when needed.  These types of rings are a great alternative to more solid rings, especially for beginners.

I recommend avoiding chrome rings.  Much like your chrome bumper, with repeated exposure to heat and sweat, they do degrade.

Cheap vibrating rings, which can often be found in your local pharmacy, are generally disposable.  They have a very short battery life of about 20-40 minutes.  These are perfect for a cheap date, but not for a lasting cock ring relationship.  Cock rings with a vibrating bullet attachment are a great option to get the same buzz in a lasting way.

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Squeaky Clean

They get lots of love, playtime, lube, and attention... but how do they get clean?


Thankfully, it isn't hard to clean up after playtime and keep your toys in great, squeaky clean condition.

Boil 

Boil for 5-10 minutes then lay out to dry.  This works on toys that are made of silicone, metal, glass, pyrex, or stainless steel can be boiled.  Do not boil toys with a battery compartment or any electrical system.



Bleach 

Soak your toys in a solution of 10% bleach and 90% water for about an hour.  Be sure to rinse well and let dry before storing.  Do not soak toys with a battery compartment or any electrical system.



Dishwasher

Put your toys in the top rack of the dishwasher and let it do the work.  Don't use dishwashing detergent because it is too harsh.  The hot water will do the trick.  Do not use on toys with a battery compartment or any electrical system.



Toy Cleaner

Apply to toy and wipe off with soft cloth.
Some great ones can be found at my website under the Play Safely tab. 



Antibacterial Soap & Hot Water

This works on all types of toys.  Be sure to use antibacterial soap and hot water.  Rinse well and allow to dry before storing.

Be sure to store your toys in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.  Always remove any batteries before storing.  Also, never store silicone toys touching (they might melt together or bleed colors).

Happy playtime loves!

Monday, January 6, 2014

History of the Vibrator

Have you ever wondered how that vibrator first came about?  Well, here is a brief history for you...

45 BC—Cleopatra creates a buzz -Rumored to be the first woman to use a vibrator, Cleopatra orders a servant to hollow out a gourd and fill it with bees.  Confined to such a small space, the bees’ frantic movements vibrate the gourd enough to satisfy Egypt’s queen bee. 



1880—Things get steamy -With cases of “female hysteria” on the rise in America, the demand for medical pelvic massage skyrockets. Fatigued by servicing female patients by hand all day, doctors are relieved by George Taylor’s Manipulator—a clunky steam-powered massage apparatus.


1902—It’s electric  -Becoming just the fifth domestic appliance to be electrified, Hamilton Beach’s electric vibrator hits store shelves, graces the coveted pages of the Sears Roebuck catalogue and electrifies American consumers.

                                              


1968 -Tavel cuts the cord - Encino, California’s Jon H. Tavel marches out of the U.S. Patent Office with a patent for the first Cordless Vibrator for Use on the Human Body.  Requiring two batteries and featuring a rotation cap for adjusting speeds, Tavel’s battery-powered genius is yet to be replaced.
1998—Multiplying like rabbits  - After being featured in the Sex and the City episode “The Turtle and the Hare,” the rabbit vibrator, featuring a clitoral stimulator in the shape of rabbit’s ears, ushers in a new age of product innovation, consumer demand, and sexual openness, awareness and health.


It just goes to show that desiring pleasure, be it solo or with a partner, is nothing new.  What are your thoughts on this little history lesson?