TMI Tuesday: July 1, 2014

Life

1. We learn from our mistakes. What sex or sexual mistakes have you made and learned from, What was the lesson learned?

Hmmm... If you are going to be chained to a massage table for hours of hardcore fucking, take breaks from the cuffs so you have feeling in your arms when you are finished.  Also, lube is a must for anal sex... ALWAYS!  I learned both of these lessons the hard way.

This is oh so true for me... but not on these lessons!

2. What risk (sexual or not) would you take if you knew you would not fail?

I would love to write an autobiography.  I have lived a crazy life and would love to give others' hope by sharing my story.  I think it could make people laugh, cry, and sit on the edge of  their seats.  Maybe someday... and yes, it would include a great deal of sex!

3. At what time in your life have you felt most passionate and alive?

One of these times was the week of my wedding to my wife.  We were in another country and spent the trip exploring the city and each other.  There was so much love and passion that every experience was amplified and everything was made more beautiful.  

4. What one piece of advice about sex would you offer the virgin you?

Does this mean that I can claim Madonna's "Like A Virgin" as my theme song again... LOL.  No one ever cosigns that one for me!  I would tell my inner virgin to learn about her body, what feels good to her, and embrace her sexuality to make HERSELF feel good.  Knowledge is power and there is nothing to be ashamed of.

5. What are you avoiding?

Switching the blog over to be self-hosted... it is going to happen soon though!

6. By what age should you know what you want to do with your life?

I am not the type of person that believes there is a one size fits all answer for things.  I think people should live fully, try lots of things, have lots of experiences, and do what they enjoy in life... regardless of when they figure that out or if they ever settle into one thing.  For me personally, I have had done many things that I love and am passionate about.  I go where life takes me... and try my best to enjoy the ride.

Bonus: Do you think you’ve experienced true intimacy in a relationship?

Yes, with one person.  I have loved many, but feel true intimacy was only experienced with one.  Open communication, desire to truly know one another, facing fears hand in hand, working together to heal and move forward... two willing participants, head over heels in love, doing the work.  It was the most amazing experience...

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